One of the things that will stop life coaches and speakers making the most of building their online business is their fear of technology.
If I talk about list building, autoresponders and key words their eyes glaze over – and so they should! You are unconsciously incompetent or maybe even consciously incompetent and whichever camp you fall into you don’t know stuff!
If you glaze over and panic then you know (as a life coach and even as a speaker) that you block yourself off from every really experiencing the magic of being online. If your mindset locks in to “it’s difficult” then it will be and it will all seem frightening too.
Okay so you don’t know this stuff but that could be a great reason to get excited not shy away. You could see it as an opportunity not an obstacle.
One of the best ways to get rid of any blocks you have about doing this “technology stuff” is to use the power of Emotional Freedom Technique. If you are familiar with EFT then I recommend you go and start tapping but if you are not let me introduce you to Magnus and his brilliant world of EFT and tapping
You can find Magnus at http://www.tapping.com
I will be adding more on EFT because it is a great way to release yourself from any limiting beliefs and blocks you may have. I trained in EFT back in 2002 and used it with clients (I was known as the Mind Mechanic lol)
In 2008 I used it to release my fear of charging large amounts of money. I would literally feel sick to my stomach at the thought of charging a client £10,000 for a weekend workshop. I used EFT to release myself from that after working through believing I was worth £10,000 for a weekend’s worth of work!
You can find a lot of information at emofree.com but I personally would just follow Magnus because he really is great at teaching how to do it.
When I run the Business Building Busters (BBB) where we lock ourselves away for 2 days in one month and focus on building your business – not just the theory but the practical stuff too. I will cover EFT a little at the vision creation section so that when you dream your online business into being you dream big.
Of course dreams alone don’t build a castle, which is why we will also focus on actually building your business. I take you through it and all the technology step by step. At the end of it all you don’t have a load of theory on how to build a business but you have AN ACTUAL BUSINESS!
Get ready for more about my BBB’s coming soon. Best thing to do is to join my list and stay in touch. That way you will know ahead of everyone (even my blog readers) when anything happens. Only my list gets access to the free masterclasses I run and I don’t put the replays on my blog – you need to be there!
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All communities whether offline or online go through a cycle of participation that will see the network activity peak, slow down, rise again, peak again, slow down again – on and on.
New members who join an online group will go through the same initiation process as a person who walks into an established offline group – they will be expected to go through a period of getting to know the members, contributing to discussions and adding to the community before they will be fully accepted.
This is why advertising a business as a new member of a network really doesn’t work. Yes, virtual communities offer a fantastic opportunity to promote what you do and earn a living but not when you join an established community and immediately begin to advertise what you do in a form of “look at me” behaviour.
Giving is paramount in any situation and it is no different online. Giving to receiving, providing value first, sharing what you know – as a participant of an online forum or network this is essential if you want to make a difference and create an impact.
Participation will also be dictated by the facilities available – a blog on it’s own can provide a primary means of connecting with users and giving them a space to air their opinions. A blog with a forum attached now opens up the possibility for members to contribute by adding their own content (commonly known as user generated content) and a blog with a social network provides a safe space for those who want to read and lurk (all communities have their lurkers who do not want to participate actively but enjoying reading) as well as upload more personal items such as video and photos.
Different types of member participation – a life cycle view
In 2000 Amy Jo Kim proposed a life cycle for members of virtual communities. In this cycle it states that
- Members may start off as visitors/lurkers, people who want to take a look at what the community is about.
- Once comfortable they will join and are now new members of the community or novices and begin participating in community life.
- After a sustained period of contributions they become regulars and if they continue to maintain their current level of participation they become leaders.
- Leaders who continue to take an active part in the community move on to become elders.
This life cycle can be applied to any virtual community and it is very common for regulars and leaders to stop contributing for a while before returning – sometimes to their past status and sometimes not.
Another model that highlights the life cycle of a virtual community can be taken from the works of Lave and Wenger who suggest that there are five different model types when it comes to member participation
Peripheral (i.e. Lurker) – This person remains outside the group and is anonymous
Inbound (i.e. Novice) – A new member who has joined and is looking at becoming active in the community
Insider (i.e. Regular) – A regular contributor to a virtual community who will add and take part in discussions as well as join groups.
Boundary (i.e. Leader) – Maintains membership participation, monitors interaction between members and is critical especially at the beginning of a new social network to ensure the virtual snowball effect takes place.
Outbound (i.e. Elder) – A member who has contributed to the group for many years and who will always remain an important member.
There are also members who are ready to move on because the group dynamics have changed, maybe the community has moved in a new direction or has changed the way it operates.
Joining & Non Participation
It is very common for new people to join a network and not take advantage of the services on offer. For some there may be barriers to participating in a social network that makes it difficult for them to join in or time constraints, meaning they join but never get round to coming back and actively taking part.
If you have a small group and the large majority of members find participation difficult this will obviously stunt the growth of your network, and learning aids like video tutorials can make a huge difference.
If participation is an important part of the value system of your organisation then you will want to spend time discovering what causes the lack of participation from each member. The only way to overcome this issue will be to contact each member individually to discover what you can do to help.
Welcome To The Gold Area
Each month you will find a new tab available at the top. You can click on the self confidence tab (above) to get access to your first month and any other extra resources I include with your membership. Each month for as long as you stay a member a new tab becomes available to you along with all the information I have included.
In month 3 I have a great audio product surprise for you and in month 5 a special gift so watch out for them.
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Week 1 - What is self confidence and how much of it do you have?
Week 2 - Why Men Find Self confidence attractive
Week 3 - How to improve your confidence – techniques and tools
Week 4 – Maintaining your confidence at all time
Remember to promote the site
I pay you for everyone who signs up for this course so click on theAffiliate tab to get hold of your special link that you can use to send to people. It is important they click on YOUR link to join because it is your specific link which lets me know you sent them here.
No need to sell anything, just act as if you are telling your friends about a great film you watched at the movies that you want them to go see. Or talk to them like you would when you have eaten a fantastic meal and you want to recommend the restaurant.
They will naturally see the changes in you as you go through the course so if anyone asks that’s a natural time to say “I’ll send you a link to it so you can join too”
Welcome To The Gold Area
Each month you will find a new tab available at the top. You can click on the self confidence tab (above) to get access to your first month and any other extra resources I include with your membership. Each month for as long as you stay a member a new tab becomes available to you along with all the information I have included.
In month 3 I have a great audio product surprise for you and in month 5 a special gift so watch out for them.
Explode Your Self Confidence
Month One – Click On The Link To Download
Week 1 - What is self confidence and how much of it do you have?
Week 2 - Why Men Find Self confidence attractive
Week 3 - How to improve your confidence – techniques and tools
Week 4 – Maintaining your confidence at all time
Remember to promote the site
I pay you for everyone who signs up for this course so click on theAffiliate tab to get hold of your special link that you can use to send to people. It is important they click on YOUR link to join because it is your specific link which lets me know you sent them here.
No need to sell anything, just act as if you are telling your friends about a great film you watched at the movies that you want them to go see. Or talk to them like you would when you have eaten a fantastic meal and you want to recommend the restaurant.
They will naturally see the changes in you as you go through the course so if anyone asks that’s a natural time to say “I’ll send you a link to it so you can join too”
